Self-defense in the case of dating fraudulence online

In this article we want to offer you a solid guide concerning dating sites with Russian girls. Thus you’ll know how to avoid of fraudulent Internet communication. You probably will be interested to know that lots of scammers on dating sites depicting single Russian ladies are men! It’s unlikely you’ll love a real Russian girl after two weeks of your acquaintance; however, the fraudsters can do it! Please read our Mini-guide that will help in protection you from financial and moral shock.
Financial fraudulent are common on websites devoted to international dating where foreigners can loose a lot of money
American Embassy every day takes reports about dishonesty against citizens of USA hoping to find true love on the global Net. Though you aren’t even an American, our recommendations will still help you not be deceived. These rules will be useful for citizen of any country seeking romantic communication with some of Russian girls. That’s why we had created this material before.
That’s the first rule against fraud:
Avoid of sending money to those women who are registered on different dating sites or agencies, even if she asks you about. You should inform us about all suspicious cases relevant to this item.

Introductory word

Have you ever in your life received a message like: “I always dream of meeting you. I have a travel proposition here; they would make the trip to your place real. This company prepares all documents, buys tickets and looks for a suitable hotel. I thought it should be great to use such opportunity. What are you thinking of it?”. Please, know that just so start almost all of fraudulent letters on dating sites.

A quick check

When you should be extra careful and attentive
Here is the list of the main signs that pointing to the obvious suspicions of fraud. For full protection from scam read the full version of this article on fraud Dating sites.
• The person doesn’t have the exact post address or even a phone number, so you’ll not be able at all to contact with him. Such a person will use all means to avoid questions regarding any personal information – you can easily verify that. He’ll try to avoid or simply ignore all these questions; besides, you may be told they aren’t so important.
• A man says “you” (please, remember the most of scams are looks for their “victims” on dating resources. On such services people can post their ad for free and avoiding any verification.
• A collocutor desires of coming to your place (remember, in the USA or Canada (and others Western countries such visit is impossible without obligatory participation of the Embassy).
• Somebody uses by “national language” to make a certain impression.
• A person says that he has lost his job or he needs urgent medical care; most likely you’ll be asked for money on that.
• A user from non-English speaking country has suspiciously good English.
• The user avoids or even unwilling to provide answers on specific issues you’re interested in (questions about his life and so on). For example, if you’re interested in some questions about his life, profession or other details. Your friend instead of answering them begins asking questions to you. It means that he tries to drastically change the subject of communication that is he doesn’t want to discuss this topic – you should be suspicious.
• The man extraordinarily quickly lost his heart to you (sometimes this happens within a couple of weeks).
• If you’ll ask the user personal questions, require real evidences that can really identify him as the person, he suddenly feels hurt or offended”.
• Your partner is using an Internet cafe telling you that he urgently needs financial support (sometimes he asks to contact with you even a “manager” of this cafe to help him in that. Of course, this manager is unreal).
• The user asks for more financial resources to get for you a special “magic visa” and tickets for your meeting. He complains that his own savings aren’t enough for these purposes and in such case can help only your money together with “friends” from the local tourist Agency. Remember that lonely Russian woman simply can NOT get her visa if it will not include your personal involvement. In addition, you’ll never get such “magic” document for travelling to the USA even as a tourist. A “magic visa” simply does NOT exist!
• Your interlocutor refuses to talk about meeting him in his (her) country. He (she) can also say that much better if you come to him there.

IMPORTANT! Remember please, that the words “user”, “partner” and “interlocutor” refers to the scammer who pretends to be a Russian girl. In his deception he uses photos stolen from other people or taken in real professional models or estate agencies.
You can get a doubt here: there are so many pretty and alone women in the world, so many marriage agencies… Where would you look for real ones and how many of them are reliable?
The good news is that in general (according to reliable sources) the percentage of such reliable agencies reaches of 99.5%! Of course, no one is immune from the fact that you can stumble on these 0,5%. Here’s an example: there are more than 20 000 different profiles that have been registered on some Internet sites. Don’t despair – such site is not fraudulent. However, this can give you an idea that even if this site is extremely reliable; the number of scammers on it can reach 100 people. And now imagine these 0,5% of speculators on all web-sites of the world Dating services!
You can date online safely if you'll have all necessary information about scam behaviourDue to the fact that the total percentage of these scams is inappreciable, there is a real chance to avoid deception if you’ll have all the necessary information. In this case the risk to get on a swindler tends to zero.

Two general speculators’ categories

• An organized criminal group. Such scammers deceiving the people consciously creating fake marriage Agency and giving it as real one.
• Single scammers (and also criminal organizations). These scammers take the actual photos from unsuspecting people and put them on dating sites. In addition, they write the biographies of the non-existing women thereby deceiving you consciously.
Keep in mind that these 2 varieties can intersect with each other creating a kind of cooperation.
There are also other various fraudulent schemes which are not included in the above main groups of speculators. All of these organizations have always used all kinds of methods to keep people “on a short leash” as their paying customers. Among other things they in aggressive manner impose on people buying absolutely unnecessary products or services. Do not think these people are so stupid. Simply they are in blind love charms; they imagine that they communicate with a beautiful young lady and regard her as “easy prey”, but they become scams’ victims themselves.
After all this reading you might ask: “but what useful this website can give me in the fight against fraud?”. Just for this we’ve developed some tips; studying them you’ll get almost full warranty that you’ll be able to avoid all sorts of scams. Can we do it for you? No! Simply we cannot keep track of every your step on our site! Next, however, after giving our valuable tips you will control every step yourself and thus avoid being deceived. Quite so!
You don’t need special strain – just read this section carefully, following our suggestions. Try to remember all given you information and better print it. Attend all online resources recommended by us to get all the means of fraud protection created by professionals.
And here you may think: “Oh, yes, you also are such as they all and just want to sell me something…”. Believe us, it is perfectly if you have this thought! This means that you have begun to look at all things critically; you use your common sense and already became well versed in the peculiarities of human nature. So, you can stand on your own feet and not be too trusting; this will be the beginning of your fighting against cheaters! Even if this information won’t be enough to be (in your opinion) well prepared, you can always find more information and means of self-defense against fraud in the Network.
The most important thing is to make the right choice as the wrong one can cost large amounts of money. That’s why it’s better from the very beginning to get useful information right here, so that you don’t regret later. So don’t go away – let’s continue learning to resist scams online. Oh, and don’t forget to tell us if you liked and helped the contents of this article. It’s offensively to receive letters that begin with the words “what a pity that I haven’t met your site before…”.

Useful dating tips

So, first we offer you a few tips servants as extract of all teachings described in this article.
Tip 1:
Do not use those free sites where women can start communicating with you themselves. Just such sites serve as scam centers. Judge for yourself: any user can register on them absolutely anonymously (you can specify any e-mail address and untruthful personal data). Remember: even if you offered to pay for the registering on the Dating website – do not register if you are serious about finding a partner for life. Trust only professional and repeatedly tested agencies.

Tip 2: How to check the Agency.
Visiting the web-site of a marriage Agency read all available information on this portal before you’ll see the ads. Some background information about this Agency can already give the pages “Introduction” and “About Us”. Do not be lazy explore the other relevant sections where you can feel the spirit of this site and may feel that “something is wrong”. Try to find out if they fall in the number of Internet resources that are members of special program of combating fraud.

Tip 3: Write a detailed introductory letter (it’s desirable to have a Russian translation of it); in this case, you’ll almost certainly get a response from your chosen woman.
Writing a letter to a Russian girl for the first time describe you in detail. Women really love when a man with whom she communicates on the web-site writes to her with serious intentions. Tell her you have the most serious intentions so that she was able to analyze herself you are a reliable man whether not. It is very important to see how your mutual appetency is developing precisely.

But if the lady starts (in the early stages of communication) seek to discuss the issues regarding money you should be suspicious. In this case, you should analyze the situation carefully especially if financial matters are not corresponding to the situation developing at the moment. Try to know exactly that every your letters to you is truly sincere, and are not standard samples of mass mailing.
People who want only your money send monotonous pre-created messages. They simply do not have time on real deep letters so such people pass themselves immediately. For example they do not like to discuss specific issues; they give a minimum of personal information and instead write letters of total content without any details. This is the sign after which you should be suspicious.

Tip 4: Ask your interlocutor specific issues; try to be sure that he (she) answers them specifically.
If you communicate through an Agency, sending messages by e-mail or any other services, however your partner avoids answering concretely put personal questions such behavior may seem suspicious. It’s very important to confirm that your partner really gets your original writing. To check it send her a copy some of your actual messages by e-mail or fax. Then ask your partner if he’s got the same letter which he (she) previously received from the marriage Agency which you use together.
We know examples when some marriage agencies add in your letter their own questions, or even alter your letters. Why? Just for keeping you in the Agency (as their client) as long as possible. That’s why regular confirming of your messages accuracy is so important. This is the only way you can be sure that you receive real letters from each other.

Tip 5: Accurately read our articles about fraud on dating sites.
After reading the information about the scammers, you better learn the communication style of women from Russia. To be ready means securing a half of success when searching a real Russian lady.
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Tip 6: Use only 100% reliable agencies.
If you are interested to find a really quite reliable Dating Agency satisfying all your queries in searching of a Russian girl, see We are sure that after reading the biography of the Agency you fully ensure in its reliability. Having familiarized with all the information on this web-site you can already firmly, confidently begin to search for your “Russian lady” without any risk to be deceived. Keep in your mind that some beautiful girls can fall in love with you really. Be prepared for such turn of events!

Tip 7: Always be honest with a girl
From the very beginning of the communication, please, be very honest with the girl. Of course she’s not going to trust you immediately after the first correspondence. Remember that among scams on dating sites meet women and men. Meet unfortunately people having to other people only vested interests and sometimes they go too far.

Tip 8: How to check whether your girl is a real one
This admonition isn’t important only to you, but also to that woman with whom you communicate. The matter is that at some stage of your communication will come some moment when you ask yourself, “is my partner a real one?”. We’ve receiving many letters asking: “how can I make certain or obtain reliable evidence the person with whom you deal is a fair one”. For controlling it there are different ways while most of them aren’t worth any money. We believe that it’s better to spend at once about 120 dollars for a reliable check, than later to pay a lot more if you get to swindler. Remember that in the latter case, in addition to financial losses, you’ll get disappointment also.
Don't be afraid to spend some money and check a woman to be sure she isn't a scam
There are things you can do yourself. Say to your collocutor (just not in your first or the second letter!) you’ll send her a copy of your passport. You might do it to show the partner your trust and ask her the same for you. To explain her only thus you’ll both get more confidence and feel more comfortable developing your relationship. It would be better when you first took the matter about the passport copy. In this approach your buddy will be no reason to feel offended due to this authentication. If the girl has already sent you her photo, then she will agree to send a photocopy of the passport too.

Using our prompt you’ll compare the picture of her passport and the photo sent you previously; look her real address of residence, date of birth and other details which are usually written in the passport. Of course such evidence is not working at 100%. You can console yourself that this is only the beginning of the audit cycle; moreover it’s always good to see reaction of the partner with whom you want to build a deep relationship. Those who are trying to cheat will obligatorily reveal themselves by any inadequate suspicious response to your requests. Agree that in our world such check will look quite normal, so why not to use this opportunity to identify your collocutor in the atmosphere of the Net intercommunication?

The other good way performing such a test would be to ask the interlocutor her home address and then send her flowers through the international shop flowers delivery. You can send another gift necessarily asking a girl after getting it to take a photo with your gift or a bouquet of flowers; and the service will send the picture back. This method gives you the exact check of your girl’s real address. Such check works very well as those who are trying to cheat will never send you a real photo or provide their current home address. A swindler would start to get out and come up with any explanation why he (she) is not on the photo.

Tip 9: Don’t become a paranoid.
Try to use common sense; be careful not to become a paranoid.
If you want to become more closely acquainted with the subject of fraud on dating sites, continue to read our articles carefully not only on this page, but also on others. Here you can always find a lot of interesting and very useful information related to this topic.

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  5. Jim

    I agree that to avoid sending money is the first rule against fraud. But not every agency let male and female customers exchange contact details before the first meeting. I know that UaDreams agency forbids it. And that’s right. You should correspond through the agency, to know each other first and then after some time you can visit your lady and meet in real life. And only then if you both like each other and wish to build relationships, why not to help her financially?

  6. Sean

    I keep saying that women and men who use the services of dating agencies should be both careful as scammers can appear from both sides. Read the letters very attentively, try to understand whether a really interested person writes you. I myself don’t wanna become a member of such an agency, but think it’s ok when people want to find their partner in such a way.

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  8. Serge

    Oh, I’ve been a member of UaDreams agency for almost 2 year already. I have been corresponding with many ladies there and letters never began like that (about making a trip to my place). Besides according to the rules of this agency the first meeting should take place in Ukraine. So as you understand the company doesn’t allow ladies to travel to men abroad for the first meeting. It’s done for ladies’ safety.

    And you can ask what men get there. They get nice service, qualified translators, meeting with beautiful ladies, seightseeing. And if you are very lucky you can find your match during your first trip.

    I did during the second one. I plan to propose to her. What I can recommend to other men just please don’t be so afraid to try. There are gonna be disappointments anyway, but if you finally can find your love, then why not to try? It’s worth it, believe me.

  9. Orlando

    I wanna share my experience with you guys. I was a paying member of a marriage agency and I was scammed by two ladies. It was really bad and very unpleasant. Therefore I don’t recommend men to register on dating sites, ’cause you never know if a lady is real or if it’s a scammer who wants to make money on you. I lost a lot of money and learnt some useful lessons. Never again…

  10. Carl

    Hi there,

    I am not a newbie in dating online. And I can say that successful dating depends not only of the agency, but from people themselves,their attitude and their purposes of using the agency. When you date at home you can say if you match or not only with some time. And only after going out for some period of time you can see if your relationships are successful or disappointing. Essentially it’s like a roulette. I believe online dating is good for those who want to try their luck somewhere at the other end of the world…… or if there were some failures in offline dating. Thanks to Internet, it opens many ways to millions who search for love and believe in true love. If you don’t have time for meeting, if you don’t like risk and are not ready to disappointment, if you don’t have time for traveling, then online dating is not worth trying.

    If you expect only friendship, flirt and writing then free sites or monthly subscription one will be good for you. But be prepared and be cautious of scam and financial fraud that so often happen there. And you will be held solely liable for it.

    For successful marriage dating I recommend using pay for letter websites. Honest and trustworthy agencies never have their services for free or at a low cost. If you are ready to spend some amount you can expect to find a suitable partner “for sure” and not for “just writings” and “possible relationships” if you will be “lucky”. Besides it proves you being serious in your search and ready to devote time and money in relationships and that you are not a game seeker.

    And what is your readiness for relationships? And as is the case with the meeting offline, dating online includes risk of finished relationships, depends on how much you trust the site and eventually whether or not you believe in online dating (if you don’t, then don’t even start).

    I should say that reviews also play a major role in reputation of honest and worth agency. Not their amount, but essence and balance of bad and good. Not all of the men who have found girlfriends run fast to write a review, admit it’s true! He enjoys his relationships, dating and planning the future and is not reading or writing some posts. I guess it’s necessary to weigh all pros and contras. It would seem odd if any agency had only positive reviews – not any agency can be good for all, it’s simply can not be true. There necessarily should be negative reviews, otherwise good one are false. It’s impossible to satisfy all men and be good to everyone.

    Uadreams is new to me. I can not say anything bad or good about them. Any man choose one path where to date and meet girls. So I decided to try my luck. For now I have exchange a few letters with some ladies and for now I am satisfied with the level of their services and translation. I’ve even tried their chat system and I was amazed. So beautiful girls, so live and so natural. We talked just about everything, shared our stories.

    Video chat is great, I have never seen the similar at any other agency. I mean that kind of service with live webcam and instant messaging. Despite the huge distance between us our chat was something like a real date at the bar. So I can certainly say that this service differs uadreams from many others. I can be sure in the lady I am talking to, because I know she is real and is online writing me. I will continue using uadreams for now and see where this communication may lead me. I even think of traveling to Ukraine some time in the future. And most probably I will be using uadreams for that trip.

    Thank you for reading my post, I hope it will be helpful for you in your search.
    Good luck

  11. Zachariah

    Obviously ua is very popular among foreigners. I mean this online dating website is oriented for overseas clients only.
    Some of my friends used to be a members of this agency and some of them were successful. Indeed, they managed to maintain relation online and meet each other in personal. Seems to me that this is trustful and reliable place to find a soul mate. It been working for many years and apparently many people found their second half with their help.

  12. Charles

    Hey, Carl, I found your review very interesting.
    I’ve found a “review”. Could you give me an opinion about it?

  13. Bryan

    Scam is very difiicult to prove and in most cases, it is impossible to punish a scammer. I’ve seen screaming highlights about dating scams.
    Luckily I’ve never met scam on-line. I think scam is a very specific field and they are looking for people who will trust them begin with the first mail.


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